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Pleasure,Sex & Relationships

How to Build Your Sexual Confidence So You Can Feel The Pleasure

1. Take inventory of your feelings “This requires us to tap into memories, past experiences, [and] feelings when topics around sexuality come up and [learn to process] them,” Hope says. Journaling about your personal experiences with sex (whether it’s about conversations you’ve had or sexual acts you’ve engaged in) can allow you to gain a 360-view of why you may not feel confident while having sex. However, if doing this becomes too uncomfortable for you, that’s OK. Instead of journaling on your own, it might be a good idea to connect with a professional to help you uncover where this lack of confidence...
Pleasure,Sex & Relationships

How to make sex of all kinds pleasurable

Whether you’re having solo, partnered, or multipartnered sex, and whether you’ve had sex zero, 100, or 100 thousand times, these tips will come (wink) through for you. Forget any myths you may have learned “So often the barriers to pleasurable sex aren’t lack of skills, toys, or attractiveness,” Tanner says. “More than likely, it’s that we’re buying into myths about what we’re allowed to want and need during sex.” This is especially true for cisgender women and other folks assigned female at birth. Here, Tanner says, having more pleasurable sex means “getting more comfortable with taking up space, asking for...
Safe Sex

An LGBTQIA+ Guide to Having Safer Sex

When you think back to health class in high school, you might not have realized back then just how heteronormative it was. Standard education about sex, unfortunately, leaves out the LGBTQIA+ population of youth, with most young people reporting they don't find themselves represented in the education they receive.1 Classes are often focused on pregnancy and abstinence in relation to heterosexual intercourse only, with no guidance offered for LGBQTIA+ sexual engagement. The absence of representation in sex-ed harms LGBTQIA+ youth and can lead them to make less safe choices in adulthood if they don't receive the information that would otherwise...
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How Can I Prevent Spreading an STD?

To prevent giving an STD to someone else: Stop having sex until you see a doctor and are treated.Follow your doctor's instructions for treatment.Use condoms whenever you have sex, especially with new partners.Don't resume having sex unless your doctor says it's OK.Return to your doctor to get rechecked.Be sure your sex partner or partners also are treated.
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Health Benefits of Sex

Sex not only feels good. It can also be good for you. Here’s what a healthy sex life can do for you. 1. Helps Keep Your Immune System Humming “Sexually active people take fewer sick days,” says Yvonne K. Fulbright, PhD a sexual health expert. People who have sex have higher levels of what defends your body against germs, viruses, and other intruders. Researchers at Wilkes University in Pennsylvania found that college students who had sex once or twice a week had higher levels of the a certain antibody compared to students who had sex less often. You should still do all the other things...
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How Relationships Benefit From Sex

Beyond individual benefits for you and your partner, regular sex supports a healthy relationship in a number of ways. For instance, the oxytocin released during sex enhances a sense of bonding and improves emotional intimacy.14 Sex in a monogamous relationship increases your level of commitment and emotional connection with the other person. Expressing love through sex increases the likelihood of couples staying together. As a result, sex is positively associated with a lower divorce rate.
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Physical Benefits of Increased Sex

It's fairly intuitive to understand how sex improves emotional health, but there are a number of physical benefits from sex as well. Some of these include: Better physical fitness: Sex is a form of exercise. According to the American Heart Association, sexual activity is equivalent to moderate physical activities, like brisk walking or climbing two flights of stairs.7? The motion of sex can tighten and tone abdominal and pelvic muscles. For women, improved muscle tone improves bladder control.Enhanced brain function: Preliminary studies on rats found that more frequent intercourse was correlated with better cognitive function and the growth of new brain cells....
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Psychological Benefits of Sex

There are many emotional and psychological benefits of making love. Sex is strongly linked to a better quality of life. Some of these benefits include: Better self-image: Sex can boost self-esteem and reduce feelings of insecurity, leading to more positive perceptions of ourselves.Higher rates of happiness: According to a 2015 study conducted in China, more consensual sex and better quality sex increases happiness.4?More bonding: Brain chemicals are released during sex, including endorphins, which decrease irritability and feelings of depression. Another hormone, oxytocin (the "hug drug") increases with nipple stimulation and other sexual activity.5? Oxytocin helps foster a sense of calmness...
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Sex in long-term relationships can be hot, passionate, and plentiful.

Sex in long-term relationships can be hot, passionate, and plentiful. Ditch the assumptions you have about what couples' sex lives look like over time. A 2018 study found those narratives about "passion decay" in long-term relationships actually became self-fulfilling prophecies: that is, people who believed passion would decline in their relationships over time really did experience lower commitment levels. So don't fall into the trap of believing sexual desire will automatically fade as your relationship goes on. Desire and sex don't need to decrease in long-term relationships. Plenty of people in long-term relationships have super-hot, wonderfully satisfying sex lives years and years...
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Having Sex More Often

In a supportive relationship, there are many benefits to having more sex. Higher rates of sexual activity are linked to positive changes, such as lower blood pressure, reduced stress, greater intimacy, and even a lower divorce rate.1 ? While there are no one-size-fits-all rules when it comes to an ideal sex frequency, here's some insight from the latest research. Illustration by JR Bee, Verywell  Ideal Frequency for Having Sex A 2015 study found that general well-being is associated with sexual frequency, but only to an extent.2? Relationship satisfaction improved progressively from having no sex up to having sex once a week but did...